Thursday, 15 January 2015

Read this on fb (Natali)

Women's asceticism is the main women's asceticism is not fasting, not a vow of silence and not hardening.
The biggest austerity is to be a woman, develop their femininity, cultivate your feminine energy, share it with your family, to create a harmony, and the main thing in itself.

Try: a) talking like a true woman-soft and pleasant words;

b) look like real woman wear woman's clothes: dresses, skirts and cheerful colors, dress chastely, but fashionable and beautiful. Walk soft, rolling gait;

in) feel like a true woman-by developing the best feminine qualities-humility, care, kindness;

g) come as a real woman-wisely, patiently, d) to deal with women's Affairs: needlework, cooking;

And you will understand that this is a very, very difficult, but happy fruits such austerity will not keep you waiting.
It is very important to any woman to be beautiful and smart talk. Even the bitter truth-only kind words. And we're used to hack off the shoulder "truth uterus". Unfortunately, we have not been taught that neither family nor home. Not taught to speak simply good. But already "in the blood" to criticize and condemn. 

Important skill of his wife-the ability to be satisfied with what you have. Often, on the contrary, his wife unhappy, poisoning the lives of yourself and loved ones. You have to be able to be focused on her husband and invest only in one (without thoughts and comparisons with other) all my faith and energy. And then the man is moving forward.


Thursday, 8 January 2015

Endings and beginnings.RIP

There are always endings of different things in life, sometimes it's the ending of single life, sometimes the ending of being without children..but then there are also beginnings.

A few days ago on January 2. 2015 there was a very important ending, the ending of my lovely grandmothers life. I still haven't quite understood that I will niot be able to see her and speak to her ever again. We were very, extrememly close, she was a mother to me.

She herself said, she didn't only have three children, she had five. First her own three sons, and then me and my brother. (our dad is her son).

And now it endeth...there is a new era in the Tonis clan. I am not sure what it will be like, who will take over as the gatherer of the clan?

In memory of my dear grandmother, I will hereby take the same name I gave my daughter. The same name my farmor had. Maria. I will add it next to my given name in her memory.

Hvil i fred (r.i.p)
Farmor, i hjertet for evig!!    (in my heart for eternity)